Lack, Middling Or Plenty – What’s Your Perception?

​Hey Queen,

I don’t know where you are in the world, but it’s been raining A LOT here. 

I had heard that it was supposed to rain more here but I didn’t realise how much!

It’s beautiful though as everything is bursting a vibrant green in time for spring and the smells are just incredible from the blossom and Mother Earth herself.

Today I want to talk to you about lack, plenty and particularly the middle area - somewhere in between.

You see, most women that I speak to don’t know what they want – sorry, not sorry at calling us out – full stop. Right there.

And then there are others who don’t know what they want unless they are in lack or contrast.

Or perhaps they know that they want, the opposite of where they are or what they are feeling or experiencing right now, in the lack, but it’s wishy washy.

So what do you want then and be specific.

But, leave space for the Universe to co-create miracles with you.

I’ll give you an example.

When COVID hit and we were living in our tiny flat in Brighton with no garden I was very much in contrast.

I felt I couldn’t breathe living in the city with all the restrictions being imposed on us.

So I had to escape.

The opposite, greenery, less people and space to breathe.

Now how is the Universe going to deliver that because I have been so vague!

So this is what I did.

I found a large patch of green in England called the Wye Valley and I told the Universe I wanted to live there or the surrounding area.

Next I wanted a house and my only two requirements were a view – I wasn’t moving all that way and living in a lush green valley with no view - and at least two bathrooms. 

And that was it, that was my list.

Then what do you know, the Universe delivered and then some with this mahosive, house in a tiny rural village, with stunning views across to the Welsh mountains and three bathrooms all bigger than the bathroom in the flat.

So what I’m asking you is, are there any areas in your life which are meh or just okay and NOT fabulous, pinch me am I dreaming? This is so worthy of my badass phenomenal queen-self?

Because Goddess you are worthy and so deserving of the spectacular-dazzling life that’s in your heart.

You are anything but mediocre, ordinary, meh.

Don’t wait until you’re in contrast gorgeous as it suucccccccccckkkkkkkkkkkssssssssssss there.

Make your plans, with the necessary wiggle room for the Divine, to start living the life you desire NOW.

Not next week.

Take it from someone who knows because she spent 9 years in a place she never wanted to move to.

Recovering people pleaser over here. 

💛 What To Explore & Try 💛

If your beliefs create your reality then what do you believe and how do you find out?

• Journal
• Look to where in your life you view plenty and then look to where you view lack and then look to the middle.
• How can you turn up that “feeling” of plenty?
• What would the “middle” look like if it was fabulous, darling?
• Instead of “lack” what would plenty look like?
• What one action can you take right now which is aligned to “plenty” (abundance/fabulousness/your queen-self) and will move you out of lack or middling to a whole different frequency?

💜 Hawaiian Forgiveness Prayer 💜

I’m sorry that we’re currently experiencing meh <Insert Area Of Life> and that this “meh” has maybe made me a bit comfortable as it’s not contrast and I don’t know what I want.

Please forgive me for all my past beliefs, conditioning and experiences which have led to this present perception and feeling of meh in <Insert Area Of Life>.

Thank you for reminding me that I am a powerful creatress who can change ANYTHING in less than a nano second. I just need to know what I want and not get too attached t the outcome.

I love you. So please don’t wait until we’re in contrast before we make healthy and happy changes for ourselves. 

👉 Say the above prayer out loud in front of a mirror as your eyes are the window to your soul and just let it work its healing magic. ✨

You are so worthy and deserving of living the life you dream of now. Don’t allow for busy-ness to distract you or allow yourself to live a mediocre life because babe, you are worth so much more than that.

P.S Honey, you know that fabulous life looks different for everyone. Mine is living in a tiny rural village where there are more sheep than people and on the edge of a forest which goes for miles but that might not be yours and that’s just perfect because if we were all the same, imagine how boring this world would be.

Love you. ​💚

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